That is your destiny only if you let it be. You can always change your destiny by taking a look at your life and making the changes you need to.
Here are some suggestions of things you can do to turn your life around:
- Focus on doing what matters—look at the things that are most important to you and then prioritize them so you can improve your productivity with good work habits
- Don’t be a lazy slacker—It’s so easy to procrastinate when it comes to your work, schedule your time to do your projects and work on them
- Quit searching for answers—it’s a great time waster. There are 3 ways to get the answers you need and they are 1. education(school) 2. experience(work) 3. introspection(listening to the voice in your head). Continually looking for the perfect answer
- Make smart decisions—the best way to do this is to have good instinct. lots of experience and take smart risks.
- Accept that nothing you say matters to anyone else–you’re wasting your time trying to impose your opinion on someone else.
- Build real relationships with real people—even you meet people online, the best way to meet them in person
Build a strategy around what you want in life and how you’re going to get there. Write it down and hold yourself or find someone to make sure you follow through.
Strategy to Change Your Destiny
Plan Your Future
Make course corrections along the way that are specific and measurable. Take the time to discuss the details of every aspect of your life, both personal and professional, to achieve integrated success and happiness.
The future has to reflect what is physically possible with available resources and limitations. Create filters to keep yourself from wasting time and energy on what’s unachievable or irrelevant.
When it comes to telling stories and coming up with rationalizations, don’t cause misdirection and distraction. Warning: Allowing this dialogue requires intimate knowledge of each other and great trust. Pick your accountability partners wisely.
Don’t Settle for Mediocrity
Make sure you’re pushed to the limits of your potential. Too many people settle for what is easy rather than engage their energy and creativity to create something different and meaningful. Then they wonder why their work has no significance.